You didn't recommend anything? Truth and morals are relative. If your relatives support your truth, you are right. If not, you need to choose better relatives.
Truth and values come not from any absolutes, but from our communities (originally, our relatives mostly). Today, we live in many different communities at once. It's no surprise that we (and you) cannot find truths. We can't figure out who our relatives are. Truth and morality can only be found when we are certain of who our relatives are.
to your health, tracy